The Rooms We Do not Miss After Downsizing (And The Ones We Do)

Sherry’s publish a couple of months in the past about what furnishings & decor we nonetheless personal after downsizing was the primary time I’d appeared again at photographs of our earlier home shortly. It was a enjoyable stroll down reminiscence lane (how has it been 2.5 years since we moved?!). It additionally stroke a chord in my memory about how a lot “additional home” we used to have. As in, full rooms that have been so under-utilized that I’d virtually forgotten about them!

Don’t get me mistaken: we beloved that home. However, as you understand, it was a a lot greater home than we realized we would have liked (spending a complete summer season in our smaller pink seashore home actually clarified that for us – extra on that right here), and we have been excited & relieved to downsize to our present house in Florida. We went from 3,150 sq. ft in Virginia to 1,400 sq. ft right here – which is lower than half the house, for the mathematics nerds on the market.

Some rooms listed below are simply smaller than their Virginia counterparts, however we even have full rooms which might be simply completely lacking (we went from 3 loos to 1, and now not have issues like a storage, a house workplace, a eating room, and so on). And over the previous 2.5 years of dwelling right here in our smaller house (by a worldwide pandemic, which resulted in a complete yr of at-home studying in our smaller house!) we’ve undoubtedly put having fewer rooms to the take a look at. And because it has been a couple of years, and we’ve gotten alongside so nicely with out them, I assumed it’d be fascinating to see which of them we don’t miss (and those that we do miss).

6 Rooms Versus 14 Rooms

Merely put, our present house has six rooms. A multifunctional room downstairs that has a kitchen on one facet and a sitting space on the opposite, three bedrooms, a toilet, and a multi-functional household room upstairs that serves as a TV room/workplace/crafting space/playspace. Right here they’re:

If you wish to learn extra about these rooms and see extra photographs of every one, I’ve linked them under for you:

1. The Kitchen/Sitting Space
2. Our Bed room
3. The Lavatory
4. Our Daughter’s Bed room
5. Our Son’s Bed room
6. The Upstairs Household Room

We’re fortunate to even have a giant upstairs deck, two porches, a pool space, and different out of doors areas that give us much more room to unfold out (and due to it being good outdoors practically year-round right here, they get quite a lot of use!). However as for conditioned indoor rooms, these six areas are it! We do have a laundry closet within the kitchen and a small hallway that joins among the rooms, however these don’t depend as precise rooms by any customary I’ve ever heard of.

Be aware: a grand hallway with precise furnishings in it – like an entry lobby, can undoubtedly depend as a room (for instance, our final home’s lobby had an entry desk, a chandelier, and two of its personal closets inside that roughly 12′ x 12′ room – so the true property itemizing for that home listed it as a room and included its measurements).

Talking of our final home, let’s evaluate the FOURTEEN rooms we had there:

1. The Kitchen
2. The Household Room
3. The Eating Room
4. The Workplace
5. The Downstairs Lavatory
6. The Lobby
7. Our Bed room
8. Our Lavatory / Stroll-In Closet
9. Our Daughter’s Room
10. Our Son’s Room
11. The Corridor Lavatory
12. The Artwork / Homework Room
13. The Laundry Room
14. The Bonus Room

That’s a distinction of 8 rooms – not together with unconditioned areas – so there’s undoubtedly a noticeable distinction between the 2 homes. A humorous facet notice is that our Richmond home additionally had a GIANT walk-up attic (as giant as all the first flooring of the home), a two-car storage, and a giant out of doors shed, that are 3 different areas that we don’t have in our present home.

These three spots may maintain a ton of stuff, so together with happening by 8 rooms, we additionally downsized these additional storage areas! That’s truly one thing I’m actually proud that we may accomplish. We used to have SO MUCH CRAP within the attic and the storage felt like we continually wanted to scrub it out.

The Rooms We *Don’t* Lacking Having

First, a fast disclaimer: totally different folks clearly have totally different wants and needs from their houses. Individuals typically ask us about “our downsizing journey” (please say that with drama and emotion like each particular person on Love Island says “our relationship journey”) and we’re glad to speak about how issues have gone for us, however we’re the primary to confess that each human on earth could have totally different experiences, opinions, and outcomes.

The purpose of this record is simply to share our thought course of, which could enable you to decide what your “should have” areas are if you happen to’re home looking, renovating, or perhaps simply rethinking the operate of a spare room in your own home. And if you happen to’re fascinated about downsizing, this may offer you some hope that you simply’ll be high quality and not using a [insert room you’ve always had here].

Additionally, we’re not scripting this to counsel that you simply demolish a sure room or really feel unhealthy about having it. Numerous these rooms are very important in sure houses and households and, even when not, there’s nothing mistaken with a room merely being “good to have” both. Heck, we lived in our too-big-for-us home for 7 years earlier than we made the transfer right here! So perhaps your spare bed room is nice for resale, that additional powder room was enjoyable to embellish, or that basement fitness center is nice for storing fifty-two packing containers of vacation decorations. We undoubtedly crammed our attic TO THE GILLS. We’ve been there and we get it.

Once we lastly bought to the place the place we have been excited (after which extraordinarily relieved) to downsize, we additionally knew it could contain some sacrifices and compromises in comparison with our earlier house. Actually what this record confirmed us upon additional reflection is what number of of them haven’t felt like sacrifices in the long term! That actually was the shock from this hindsight evaluation.

Don’t Miss: A Lobby

Longtime followers could be shocked by this as a result of we typically bemoaned the lack of a lobby in our first two houses. Each have been small brick ranches the place the entrance door opened proper into the lounge. So having a correct entryway in our final home had felt like we’d FINALLY MADE IT. We have been fancy folks with a lobby!

However trying again on it, that room looks like wasted sq. footage as a result of we principally by no means used the entrance door (we at all times got here by the storage) so the lobby was simply additional house to cross by on our solution to different rooms. And although we’re again to that door-swings-right-into-living-area state of affairs right here, it actually hasn’t bothered us. It’s such as you at all times lengthy for one thing, lastly get it, and notice it’s high quality however not a deal-breaker if it went away once more.

It undoubtedly took a while to determine a furnishings format that works across the entrance door, however we’re actually pleased with the way it’s turned out. We even have some good useful storage for coats and backpacks proper while you stroll in, due to the adjoining laundry closet (the children have been in school after we took this picture, however their backpacks dangle on these decrease hooks on the laundry closet door).

In the end, whereas we nonetheless see the worth of a lobby in some houses – even only for the “fancy issue” of getting one for a pleasant dramatic first impression – we’ve discovered that we’d personally prioritize a useful entryway with storage. For instance, if given the selection between a grand open lobby or a primary entrance door with room for a small mudroom closet or backpack dropzone behind a door, we’d select the latter. In our case, we selected a brilliant hardworking laundry closet and a pleasant open feeling within the dwelling space as an alternative of boxing out a proper lobby.

Don’t Miss: A Laundry Room

Once more, this may come as a shock contemplating we labored very arduous to create a laundry room from scratch in our final home (we stole house from our unfinished attic). We even went all out with a marble backsplash and under-cabinet lighting to make it probably the most tricked-out laundry house we’ve ever owned.

On reflection, it was undoubtedly extra laundry house than we would have liked. Going into it, we pictured LOVING the choice to throw haphazard piles of to-be-washed objects on the ground, shut the door, and let it’s our little soiled secret. Or perhaps having fun with some peace-and-quiet whereas we folded or ironed garments in right here.

However none of that ever actually occurred. Garments by no means made a pit cease in right here, aside from time spent within the precise washer or dryer (they have been in our hampers earlier than – and folded on the mattress in our room after). Perhaps if we had extra children, busier sports activities schedules, or greater wardrobes (you understand Sherry loves a minimal closet) we’d have discovered ourselves needing this spacious secluded laundry zone on the finish of an extended upstairs hallway. However for our household, having the laundry so out-of-sight truly ended up being a sticking level. We have been continually forgetting we had any laundry working as a result of it was on the very finish of this lengthy hallway tucked behind a door (in each former homes it was quite a bit nearer to extra bustling areas of our house just like the kitchen and we hardly ever forgot laundry due to that proximity).

In some ways, our new laundry setup is good for our habits. It’s proper in the midst of the home in a closet inside our kitchen/downstairs dwelling space, which makes it extraordinarily handy to everybody’s bedrooms and it drastically cuts down on forgotten hundreds. Nevertheless it’s nonetheless roomy sufficient that we’ve got a counter for pre-treating stains, a basket for wrangling too-be-washed objects that could be on deck for the subsequent load, and flooring house for standing with out being completely in the way in which.

And since it’s nonetheless behind closed doorways, it doesn’t must be saved pristine AND it cuts down on the laundry noise remarkably nicely. It’s humorous additionally to appreciate that in our first two homes, we solely ever had laundry closets or nooks with a stackable washer/dryer – and by no means actually had an enormous devoted room with cabinetry and tile and all that jazz like we had in our final home. However as soon as once more, I believe it was a case of “eh, we had it and it was good, however we’re simply high quality with out it.” Principally while you downsize you select your priorities and your own home can’t have every little thing as a result of then it could simply be large.

Don’t Miss: The Eating Room

This most likely comes as no shock to most individuals, contemplating how a lot “formal” eating rooms have fallen out of favor with many households. We additionally spoke typically about how hardly ever we used this room. We often ate household dinners at our kitchen island, so this was largely only a dumping floor for packages and to-be-dealt-with packing containers that we often cleaned up if company have been coming over.

Now we solely have one indoor eating spot: the desk in our kitchen (which may seat as many as 8 folks if we pull it out, which we’ve accomplished fairly a couple of instances). As a household, we’ve got discovered that we MUCH choose consuming at a desk dealing with one another, so this can be a huge enchancment from sitting on larger stools all staring out in a line at our outdated kitchen island.

One apparent draw back to that is that it’s a far cry from a “formal” setup, so if you happen to love internet hosting dinner events, this won’t suffice. We’ve by no means been huge formal entertainers (we like an off-the-cuff set-out-the-chips-and-salsa recreation night time or an order-pizza-or-BBQ-burgers feast), so it wasn’t a priority to ditch our eating room. Today if we’ve got folks over, we have a tendency to assemble outdoors in any case. We frequently eat out by the pool, the place we’ve got a pleasant huge desk with an umbrella that additionally seats 8.

Don’t Miss: The Bonus Room

Because the identify implies, this room was “additional” house in our final home that we created by ending the attic over our storage. After our kitchen, it was the largest room in the home and it acted as a film/TV room + playroom + crafting house. So it’s humorous to suppose such a multifunctional room falls into the “don’t miss” class. However wait – there’s a clear purpose why we don’t miss it that we’ll get to in a second.

Changing this unfinished house on our second flooring into conditioned usable sq. footage was partly as a result of it simply made sense for the home (it already had HVAC arrange, so all it actually wanted was drywall to be a useful room – plus we nonetheless had a full unfinished walk-up attic on the third flooring for storage). And making this a bonus room appealed to us as a result of we thought a secondary dwelling house that was designed with the children in thoughts can be good. You understand, a enjoyable house to corral everybody’s children after we had folks over, a room that might be messy upstairs however you simply ignore it downstairs, and a spot for cozy household film nights.

Funnily sufficient, the explanations we preferred that bonus room are the exact same causes we love our household room on this smaller home! It’s an upstairs secondary dwelling house that’s designed with our children in thoughts, to allow them to depart it messy, hang around with their mates whereas the adults hang around downstairs, and we are able to all pile in for a household film night time. Be aware: we depend our small downstairs sitting space & kitchen as our major dwelling house as a result of all of us spend much more time in that consuming/cooking/hangout zone downstairs than we do up right here, however it’s fairly shut. Six rooms = you utilize all of them, quite a bit.

Structure tip: in a small home, having two giant dwelling areas that aren’t proper subsequent to one another is actually what makes this home really feel prefer it lives LARGE. We routinely have a ton of youngsters up right here hanging out and all the adults downstairs enjoyable within the kitchen/sitting space, and due to one being a complete flooring above the opposite, the children don’t hear each convo we’ve got downstairs, and we don’t hear no matter film they’re watching or recreation they’re taking part in. It’s nice.

Similar to our final home’s bonus room, our upstairs household room right here has a TV, an artwork desk, and open flooring house for video games & crafts. Issues have modified a bit now that our children are older (we added that bonus room 6 years in the past), so we don’t expertise blocks and stuffed animals everywhere in the flooring like earlier than. However this room nonetheless sees its justifiable share of messes within the type of crafting explosions or board recreation marathons – all of which find yourself on the ground – which is one more reason we’re glad it’s upstairs and out of sight. Similar to our former bonus room!

So in the long run, the rationale we don’t miss the “bonus room” room is that we nonetheless form of have it, simply by one other identify. And ours works even tougher right here as a result of it additionally has an workplace house tucked into it. Talking of which…

Missed It At First: The Workplace

As two individuals who work at home, one concern when shopping for this home was not having a devoted room for a house workplace. In our final home we had transformed the formal front room into a big workspace for each of us, so we knew that downsizing to a room and not using a devoted house workplace was going to be an enormous change.

The distinction felt particularly difficult proper after we moved, due to COVID throwing digital studying onto our plates. For a complete yr, all 4 of us ate virtually each meal at house, labored & did faculty 5 days every week from this home, and so on. I imply: nothing places a home to the take a look at like that. And I’m glad to report that we made it work, however it undoubtedly wasn’t the best time of our lives (I’m positive numerous folks would say the identical factor). This was the setup proper after we moved. It was… not excellent.

The humorous factor is that it wasn’t all that totally different from what we had happening in our final home’s house workplace (these two tiny chairs have been the children desk and the floating desk about 4 ft away was Sherry’s).

… however with children at house all day lengthy making an attempt to do faculty whereas we tried to work. Yeah, you guys know what that’s like. Fortunately, that wasn’t the setup for lengthy – and plenty of days truly appeared like me within the bed room on a piece name with the children upstairs doing faculty (or one/each of them in their very own rooms so they might focus a bit of extra on one thing), and Sherry working down on the kitchen desk or locked in our bed room for a in a different way timed zoom assembly or convention name.

Issues bought a lot better because the room advanced and the children went again to high school, and the desk house we carved out is palms down my favourite “house workplace” I’ve ever labored from (I’m typing from right here proper now and I’ve the entire room to myself!). You simply can’t beat all that pure mild and the view out of that huge window.

I’ve additionally switched again to a laptop computer so I can work outdoors on the upstairs deck (which I do typically) and even on the kitchen porch, such as you see under.

In the meantime, Sherry usually works downstairs on the kitchen desk and even outdoors by the pool together with her laptop computer, so in 2.5 years we undoubtedly have found out what works for us and love having such a versatile setup. It’s often inconvenient not having a devoted, quiet house for work (like throughout the summer season when the children are house), however we by no means had a door on our outdated workplace, so we’re no strangers to being interrupted by children or guests. And similar to we did in our final home – if we want a completely quiet house we simply take the laptop computer into our bed room and shut the door. We also have a desk in there by the hearth, so it’s not a foul setup.

Do Not Miss: The Storage

Sherry and I debated the place to place the storage on this record as a result of each infrequently I consider a storage fondly, simply as a consequence of how handy it was, however I’ll clarify why we in the end each voted: don’t miss. Sherry has an precise hatred for our final storage and is so glad we don’t have one anymore simply as a consequence of how a lot time we spent cleansing it out and coping with it being stuffed with crap on a regular basis, so it wasn’t a shock that she voted that method. However my emotions have been a bit extra layered.

We’re usually very tidy, organized folks. However for some purpose, garages, sheds, attics, and so on have at all times been our Kryptonite. Our Monica’s Closet, if you’ll. Each single time we spent days cleansing and organizing it and promised ourselves we wouldn’t let it get that unhealthy once more… it did. So the rationale we don’t miss a storage is simply that we’re extraordinarily grateful we’re now not in that tremendous irritating loop of not protecting our promise to ourselves and spending one more weekend cleansing the freaking storage.

Not having a storage or a garage-like house has truly pressured us into a lot better habits. We cope with packing containers and to-be-donated stuff instantly (out to the automobile it goes). We don’t acquire secondhand furnishings with as a lot abandon (Sherry’s nonetheless a fan of the curbside discover, however provided that we instantly have a necessity/spot for it). And never having a storage has spared us from having to dedicate weekends to huge storage clean-outs and, extra importantly, the overall disgrace we continually felt in regards to the state of our storage. It was an on a regular basis sticking level that we by no means solved. And now, we’ve solved it by not having one.

The easy purpose I very often look again on a storage fondly is that it’s good to have a lined enclosed house to retailer issues like bikes and our automobile. Right here I actually simply would love it for bike storage. Our automobile is out within the open and it’s utterly high quality, however we use bikes right here way more than we did in Virginia, and having a moist seat from them sitting out isn’t superb (weirdly, it’s how principally everybody shops their bikes right here: all lined up outdoors). It might be easy sufficient to make a lined little alcove for our bikes someplace within the yard with an enormous piece of tin on posts or one thing. Even simpler, I simply found these bike seat covers – and our seats aren’t moist anymore. So I believe Sherry is 100% proper. We can’t be trusted to not fill a storage with crap. We’ve unlocked complete weekends spent on the seashore & our pool that in any other case would have been spent cleansing a storage if we had one. So I’m sure that in the long term it’s a win for us to not have one.

However lest you suppose we’re absolutely cured… we DO have a small shed on the facet of our home that we use for instruments, yard tools, and different miscellaneous stuff. It’s in regards to the dimension of a port-o-potty, so we are able to’t actually stuff tons of issues inside… however I’m solely exhibiting you the surface of it as a result of – TRUE TO FORM! – it’s at the moment a large number inside.

Generally Miss: Our Ensuite Lavatory

This may increasingly come as a shock since we’ve put our plans so as to add a second lavatory to this home on indefinite maintain (we simply don’t really feel squeezed for one in any respect but – and embarking on an costly reno when the present setup has labored high quality for years now simply doesn’t really feel like the most effective use of cash or time). So whereas we truly don’t miss having an ensuite lavatory, we simply typically miss THIS particular lavatory from our final home.

And I believe that’s largely as a result of we didn’t have a lot time to benefit from the completed product earlier than we moved. We gleefully completed the lavatory and solely bought to get pleasure from it for about 3 months earlier than we had a Florida zip code.

The timing definitely wasn’t excellent, however it was a small casualty for making the extra rewarding way of life change of downsizing to a hotter and extra walkable house close to the seashore. Wanting again at these photographs, I believe we simply want we had renovated the lavatory MUCH SOONER (we lived on this home for 7 years, virtually all of which have been spent with the unrenovated lavatory that you simply see in the earlier than photographs right here).

The Commerce-Offs Of Downsizing

Lacking that grand lavatory of yore is a first-rate instance of reminding ourselves that we made intentional trade-offs by downsizing. Sure, we now not have an enormous fancy marble lavatory. As a substitute, we’ve got this stunning house to take an open-air bathe within the daylight (and an precise indoor bathe too). True story: all of us bathe outdoors round 90% of the yr – it’s our favourite spot with the solar streaming down and an entire lotta crops.

Really, a ton of downsizing is simply buying and selling one thing for one thing else. We reside a couple of blocks from the seashore (we are able to stroll there in 3 minutes!) however all of us share a toilet. We don’t have a storage, however we’ve got an enormous second-floor deck up within the bushes. Our kitchen is about 1/3 the scale of the one at our final home, however there’s a grocery retailer, eating places, and ice cream retailers inside strolling distance. Our web isn’t at all times dependable (significantly it’s sloth-slow typically) however we’ve got a pool that we are able to swim in year-round and a firepit for s’mores. We’ve quite a bit much less sq. footage than we used to, however it’s simpler to scrub and extra reasonably priced to warmth & cool. You possibly can learn extra about all the means of downsizing (it wasn’t all roses!) and that entire tradeoff idea right here on our about web page.

And if you happen to’d wish to learn different posts we’ve shared about downsizing over the past 2.5 years, these are full of data:

Additionally, in case you have any questions on wall colours or the place we bought sure objects within the photographs inside this publish, this publish has all of the supply data for our present home, and this publish has all of the supply data about our final home.

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